The Comparison Trap: Why a Man Does it, and Who he Should Really be Comparing Himself too.

The Comparison Trap: Why a Man Does it, and Who he Should Really be Comparing Himself too.

What's the number one thing that most guys ask each-other when they first meet?

"So, what do you do?"

This question can make a man shake in his boots, especially if he is already uncomfortable with his masculinity and how he provides for his family.

He doesn't need to be though, unless of course he is a dirt-bag, who lives and leaches off of other people. 

I actually despise this question, mainly because we have come to use it as a way to compare ourselves to other men, from the answer that we get we make assumptions and judgments about social status, money, success, and manhood.

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The lost virtues of a man part 1: How to navigate through this modern culture with integrity, strength, confidence and character

The lost virtues of a man part 1: How to navigate through this modern culture with integrity, strength, confidence and character

I’m often frustrated when I look around, or when I am at church, and especially when I am with a group of men with their families.

Do you know why?

You see, men of this day and age have lost something inherent, something primal, and something that is planted deep inside of them…It’s their identity, their manhood.

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How I Hit Rock Bottom and What I Discovered on the Way Back Up: 6 lessons about Leadership and Life

How I Hit Rock Bottom and What I Discovered on the Way Back Up: 6 lessons about Leadership and Life

Life has a way of bringing you to your knees, especially if you are a stubborn man like myself. I believe that I needed to be brought to my knees. There was no other way for me to learn. These are the lessons that I have learned along the way.

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