Episode - 017: The Comparison Trap


In order to be the man you want to be, you have to know who that is. Here are some very practical steps on how to figure that out.

  • Make a list of the characteristics that you want as a man

  • Seek Wisdom (Read one Proverb every day for a month, this will tell you how to live daily)

  • Begin a workout Program (this is going to help you in all areas)

  • Get a mentor, coach or accountability partner (this person needs to be someone that is going to help you but not coddle you)

  • Whenever you find yourself desiring something or wanting something, write it down, and come back to it later...or don't. See if the desire just goes away. As you resist, you will grow stronger.

What's the number one thing that most guys ask each-other when they first meet?

"So, what do you do?"

This question can make a man shake in his boots, especially if he is already uncomfortable with his masculinity and how he provides for his family.

In this episode, I talk about one of the biggest things that men do. They compare themselves to other men,

I talk about who you should really be comparing yourself to and give some practical tips on how to break the habit.

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